God! Imagine...

I know what I want And I know how to get it!

LET HENDRIX MEET THE SEX PISTOLS 

My Mind always cried for Love Alone:  why should I? First, WE MUST Understand! 
Talk! Woman! Why this animal Desire? It always sets our Souls in Hell, not Heaven… 
BLINDS… Maybe ALL too used to not fight the Man Lie “Inside”? Take my hand! 
  
I’M CLAIRVOYANT : most Men praised for “Real victories” are still Fucking badly, hiding 
Why they never Really Cared, about your Love! Oh Millenary Fear imposed as a Dream 
To consenting Victims of “doggy” Desires, pretexting it Echoes the “Natural” fights, 
Men never shared God (LOVE) to keep Women in Tears, no Exit! They stole God’s Light! 
  
(Hi)story, Times and Wars seem now more “civilized”, but not Love, we stay Dumb, 
Women maintained “naturally” hypnotized by Blinding Men still showing scary guns… 
I’ve Understood ALL Your Silences. Their “Echo” have suggests me a Mystic Thought 
GOD revealed ME A way to Purify Desire, and propose you a Sex-Lesson untaught! 
  
Imagine a World where we could “make” Love, AND “talk” deep down “Inside” the Fire, 
Oh! Mysterious Scream of Joy! I could “always” come in! if you can “tell” me “out”! Retire! 
My Water pistols OUT! Oh Smile! Whenever you foresee Baby Pain in the End… don’t Cry! 
We’ll keep the big guns for Final Tries, SO TRUE IT IS, oh well… I do always want to TRY! 
  
Yes, crazy BABY… ALL THE TIME… TRY, TRY, TRY, not FINISH! That’s where Men Lie!! 
Taste my Deadly Desire often, innocently! I’ll let you spit it out, if its Sweet taste Dies 
and become a bit too bitter Inside!! We’re not Animals! Don’t only moan! Speak & Say! 
“Love! My God Dies!” So like a Skylight, I take mine OUT go surfing on Milky Ways!!…” 
  
Oh! Dream my Love like I Dream! Foresee HAPINESS!! 
Guaranteed!!! Eternal Love and Anarchy Everywhere,! 
In the UK, in the World, bringing back A LOST HOLINESS: 
VIOLENCE OVER (fear of Sex gone) LONELINESS OVER! 
  
FIGHTS HAVE ALL FAILED AGAINST OPRESSION 
COMMON DEAD KIDS! IT IS THE TIME TO PLAY! 
 LIFE IS A NICE GAME SINCE I’VE FOUND A WAY! 
MAKE THE LOVE FOREVER: VIVE LA REVOLUTION!

Example of a typical Contradiction, in the “Reality” of Western Sexuality, in the 70’s: 
Shows the Absurdity (incommunicability) of male Sexuality!

The most “eminent” view of a Psychoanalyst appears Absurd, in the way it is “contextual” to the Love revolution (70’s). Whilst Society is said to “Liberate”, Lacan understood the Men/Women rapport in completely opposite and austere terms!!!

(source: http://www.lacan.com/rolleyes.htm)

“1973- In Encore Lacan argues that woman would only enter in the sexual rapport quoad matrem (as a mother) and man quoad castrationem  (phallic jouissance). Hence there is no real rapport and love as well as speech make up for his absence. And he adds: "There is woman only as excluded by the nature of words,...for man she is on the side of truth and man does not know what to do with it." In Le savoir psychanalytique from 1972,Lacan argues: "I am not saying that speech exists because there is no sexual rapport. I am not saying either that there is no sexual rapport because speech is there. But there is no sexual rapport because speech functions on that level that analytic discourse reveals to be specific to speaking human beings. The importance, the pre-eminence of what makes sex a semblance, the semblance of men and women. Between man and love, there is woman; between man and woman, there is a world; between man and the world, there is a wall. What is at stake in a serious love relationship between a man and a woman is castration. Castration is the means of adaptation to survival."”

In Modern Times (1990 onwards), the confusion lead to a consequent Death of Love…
“The impossibility to tell the truth” reveals a “dog”matic misconception of Desire, hiding a Lie (an untold Reality)!

The Man’s Love Lie behind the Historical Reality

As revealed nowadays, by the Internet Globalization of Porn (shall we forever laugh in between Friends, and cry Alone, in front of the Computer?) Sexuality just looks like a Really Bad Joke: the idea the pre-internet generation learned, that Love drives sexual arousal, as inherited by History, Culture, appears from this perspective, materialised on the LCD Screens invading our Modern World, just but an unreal “reflection” a long hidden a-historical Lie.

What is this Lie? A Untold Human Reality hiding being our talk (the language which frames and constructs our Stories and Histories), orthogonal to the historical time: in the Space of our Dreams, there is an increasing misunderstanding of Desire, its role and nature, and the Single Nightmare we all Share out of Time I for all potential Lovers is for all the same obsession: if Life is the product of Desire, why Sexual satisfaction is so hard, impossible on long terms,  and/or seems so “unnatural” in Love, why is there a constant fear of “Fucking up” at the root of all our actions in this “Area”, is this related to the constant feel of lack of protection (not only felt by women, these days), the climate of more and more systematic danger? Why Sexuality is declined in infinite ways, its perception making the Body and Soul experience so much “Love confusion”, in their Lifetime?

Since 1970, the Men have deeply changed the way we Love from the historical traditional Family model (where “animal Desire” was contrived, and Sex was but a function), to the model of “free relationships”, where Sexuality is more free to express our Animal “nature”, and is admitted to be a pleasure to be thus freely “enjoyed” together in a constructive way to cement Loving families.  In reality, this shift reflects 3000 years of Lies, and the “70’s western Love revolution” were just but  dazzling Mirrors of “hopes”, “progress”, “wealth” the last “invention” Modern Men found to satisfy his Sexual need more, but it does not cure the inner Pain and IN FACT, this has  made Sexes more perplex than ever to ever manage to Coexist…. The Love Connection has in fact never existed it just now Dies with time quicker (with an average every 7 years?) in Silence, Inside ALL couples in the world, killing the Universal dream of Eternal Love. Depending on your “modernity” You may view this a Cross (for the believers), a fate (for the “naturalists” and atheists)? I SAY It may well be the SAME complot! (which is the thought, the “feel” rooting the need for a Fundamental Revolution, here!)

Sexual Desire is Animal

Atheists, seculars and religious people finally share the same ambivalent view, the “Animal nature” of our Sexual desire, emphasizing how it reflects the Man great physical strength, a so beautiful violent Echo of Nature Woman should praise, and which requires barriers to contend it (seduction and/or morals codes)! In Reality, I will demonstrate, that THIS is a male dominated viewpoint, simply imposed by as a Dogma Women have “integrated” since History (language the writings invented by Men, to cement our roles in Societies) exits. It establishes a MILLENARY MIND CONTROL AGAINST LOVE that is so pernicious, the massive amount of Untold frustration, released by direct Violence, wars, in ancient times, is the more indirect source of todays’ society even more worldwide spread violence and oppression hardly masked by fake proselyte behave… 

Yes, I am an Anarchist (in the uk…)! and I SAY The fact heterosexual accomplishment is still associated to so many Love pains, disbelief on the long term, is SOLELY brought  and imposed by the identification of “sexual Desire” with a praised realisation of our “animal Desire”. Blinded only local (western) improvements of Life Conditions, we don’t see the increase untold suffering of the Soul that, because it still does not deeply enough understand the Condition of Life (Sex and Sexuality), show today the limit of “animal” Desire conception as a Love drive, in a globalized world. This led Sex to be utterly unequally or badly shared, hide how much it is “traded”, the increasing frustrations creating always more insane ways to be released, driving Humanity straight to Chaos & self-destruction…

The Origin of Fear, In Love:
Kurt Cobain, Camus, and me: The Honest Men dilemma: should I tell or should I go…?

Let’s be “The First Man” title of the last unfished Camus work before he died. Camus is highly praised, in France and I had been strongly influenced, charmed, in my 20~30’s.  However, reconsidering Camus now, at 40yo, it turs up that Camus was a womaniser, who got his loving wife very depressed: reading in between the lines, to me, “the first man” is a 2^nd testimony, after “the fall”, of how tempting but socially banned, it is to tell the origin (sexual) of the Man’s Lie, basis so his last Cycle, the “Love Cycle”, after the “Cycle of the Absurd” and that on “Revolt”, which I believe, was trying to tell “the truth”, why he’s sexual drive just led him to use his Nobel Prize fame to collect women obsessed by diversity/sensuality, but incapable of Loving his wife… beyond all what was said about his particular relation/perception/love of his Mother in a poor social environment! In the “The First Man”, the hero, Camus alter ego, is named Jacques Cormery (“JC”…), a name, “Cormery” which is a typographic distortion of “Connerie” in French: which comes from "Con" (Cunt...) and is a slang meaning “bullshit talking” or “detrimental mistake”… Camus repeatedly tries to tell (in an impossible dialogue with his uneducated Mother to find the truth about his father), that finally… “the man is a monster”!  

Trying to be better than him, like so many French kids who admired his Genius being blinded by the Fact: deep, honest, intelligent like the philosopher BUT, staying the most humble, in Love (like a Prophet?).  LOVE BLIND, I CAN DO THAT, AND ADMIT, for You, Women… You cannot blame, if No Man ever Really Made Love, Girls: THE TRUTH IS: WE are ALL obsessed from teenage, by what you can’t Imagine. It is an untellable feeling of Violence, in the Sex Urge, intimately related/echoing our predefined belligerent “role” inherited from a not less Violent History/ Education/ Culture. Its frequency is supper high! And it basically makes you want to Fuck OR to Kill, all the time… and this is really making you feel Stupid, INSIDE…!!!

Men cowardly use the energy this brings outside to “shine” but the source of the Light is not Bright, it’s pretty dark, dark enough that the most intelligent, sensible, honest Men (like Kurt Cobain, Nirvana singer, who has more to teach us frankly! Than Camus, showing again how though in another “style” lower classes can bring more authentic, visceral “knowledge”, than Philosophy, in tough and taboo matters…), end up commit Suicide! He has a song yelling “gotta find a way, a better Way, where are they!!!!!....” Woman, where are you, since 20 years?!?! Is there anybody out there, to TALK! Maybe, because Society is entertainment, you don’t listen to the songs “Meaning”… Kurt knows, he yells also to the teenager “Loving” him: “And he don’t knows what it means!...” Despite 20 years elapsed, the man still has not GLOBALLY removed the blinds put on you, and the evil nature of our desire is still largely unknown to you, and impossible to talk about. It scares you Women, and it is an utterly taboo subject, between Men. Whenever we recall there are nowadays even scientific evidence, it is used for a justifying even worse “social” and coercive Love selection rules than traditional ones, in Women “find your Man”’s books, which identify man as a Liar (biologically proven), but promotes the search for the best Liars (the most “behaving” men fitting Old norms of social conduct) still refusing any more mature Men-woman Dialog. 

Introverted in all contexts on a “theoretical” verge of finishing myself stupidly badly for ~20years but having enough rage not to do so, I’ve made a bet… Never try to seduce, I’ve always naively asked to every woman I liked honestly: “I don’t know, Love seems hard, to me… Can we “just” Talk?…I “know” some stuff”. I’ve been quite appalled, but coped with the Systematic Silence I got in feedback from Women to not seem to “face” the truth, to “talk” (despite taking extreme precautions to do so, using allusions, questions…). So HERE. Said differently and clearly, once for the good!… Yes, I repeat like Kurt, there’s a serious Problem with Male sexuality Girls! in the Reality of our Sexuality, being in a relationship or not, we just have NO CHOICE than hide how many times we (need to) masturbate, in order to keep decent face, in Society: Men just constantly Lie to you, you HAVE to accept it and all this Childish game has to stop… 

BUT don’t be depressed or afraid, by Kurt and the Mad men alike anymore! he made the 1^st alarm call, Society globally dived into Porn and almost dragged me down to suicide too… but me, Aziz Daoud-Aladine, I’ve fought ALONE an extra 20 years of inner fights for all of us, whilst the world was getting worse…!!  Hidden in a Collective Dream (the way my Life has been semi-consciously Lived, like set on a Cruise to find beyond people’s appearance, what their heart thought…), “feeling” an always more a GLOBAL lack of “Sexual Plenitude” in the world everywhere despite the fascinating liberation (explosion) of Sexuality in our virtual dreams… I found an EXIT, A SOLUTION! Yes, I found an alternative to the suffocating relents of humans “animal Desire” in this world!

Women silences

The projection of “Animal Desire” into the “human Soul” is a source of Love doubt (which is the “meta”-physical process, which roots in the mind, the existentialistic question, because we are all said we are born, from “Love”!), but its realisation in our body (not once, but on the long term), a source of pleasures not compensated by misunderstandings. This explains the contradictory Chase/Control for Sex by Men and Women all losing the plot in Violent Societies ,  playing with Lies born from the misunderstanding and fear induced by the “projections” of the Animal Desire  obsessed with “Time” an “reasons” (when, why?) and inventing them when there is none… chasing  like cats and dogs in Golden-Prisons (houses) wherein Sex is often perceived as a “Crime” in a “mental” hide and seek “Game” not fitting in diverging Love objectives (the man wanting always more, the woman always less, with time), making Sex so unequally Experienced, creating Jealousies/Vicious circles everywhere, where all untold frustration is compensated by semi-praised alternative Sexual orientations, External and Conjugal Violence in lower classes, Endless adulterous play in the Bourgeoisie, Mind imprisonment everywhere!

This is only because Love codes remain so traditional people in Love can’t be mature enough to overcome the superficial, and the “mechanism” of Desire never frankly discussed between Sex yet, never understood or revealed, all individuals live Secretly in the long term its inner (Sex) Life in the pain and fears of communication breakdown, finally not knowing anymore why, when, where with who ad how many people we should have Sex, IN REALITY, nothing in the Reality seems to makes sense but selfish or badly shared satisfaction!!! All Suffering! Woman get “naturally” scared of the Men frustration they feel, as thousands of Violent Echoes in the World, which they’ve never known/understood intimately.

Enraged Feminists

The Dogma of the “animal desire” is so strong! Feminists felt there’s something “doggy” with Men, but they missed where was the real Fight, and what is their Real Right. They indeed unfortunately cannot collaborate with Men if Men have hidden a built in Lie for millenaries! Their Mother heart still want babies, Nature cries inside! The technological solutions not really supported by men who historically control knowledge and technologies!  They can only stay dupe, enraged, disappointed by “Sexism” and play a “Power game” copied from US, but not threatening us and not facing US in the Lesbian bubble so in the meantime, they don’t see they could have found many weak/nice/honest men supporters fed up of Male domination imposed Love codes too, literally “dying” and committing suicide disgusted by their own frustration, like a hecatomb, but they’d despise them even more than Macho men, pretexting righteously that most are pretty coward too!

Feminists have revolted against Man’s Oppression which had tended to imprison them in the House-Wife role from the external Victim perspective. But in the “internal” Domain of Sexuality, they never disputed the “100% male” viewpoint on Desire and Love, thinking that Sexual Pleasure with Men is to be Gained and deserved through “natural” seduction process, and considering their Desire as just another utterly misunderstood desire “another natural” and strangely incompatible “Mystery!” deserving proper Female Care, Attention, Seduction.

So… Beyond all Appearances…

What can expect a Fucking & Made-Up Society of Fuckers, Wankers, Girlies & Whores…? still fantasizing that Mankind progresses, just because the Evil Man has hypnotized you since we talk, women, with a “Knowledge” that so obviously Shines, on US, keeping us safe leaving us so much “Choices” to fulfil our (non-sexual) Desires in the World, you can’t Revolt…! But if everything in Love, has to rely only on the reinsurance of such (external) seductions factors (intended to Civilize “word” outside, the “animal Desire” inside) at the earliest stage of a Love (dating), I don’t know how you’d ever trust, and Understand the Desire inside! It is so obviously the worse arbitrary way for Lovers to “deeply” understand together the complexity of the Life’s mystery in a World where everybody knows! it is soooo easy to Lie, impress, persuade, and I “feel” now, how all that are consequences, of how much the Man’s Lie had been and still is Immanent, hidden “by” History (the story hiding our Lie), forever!!

From the Real point of view of Male Sexuality, seduction is simply Pointless (just think about what ultimately Man say, about Girls: “a hole is a hole”, and hopefully, you’ll get that point oh yeah, you! stupidly face-painted bimbo: I talk to you here!!) very misleading and contrary to the Love understanding; it privileges only VISIBLE qualities over others, neglected, but more essential to Love, like ASCETISM, HONESTY, and HUMILITY. Refusing to face this truth is what we see, coming back as a boomerang, on the Net: the Love dies over flood by the pornographic, violent show of largely misunderstood sharing of the sexual pleasures, which distorts back the Love feelings that bring us there, an evil downward spiral!

This Reality we’ve made/desired/voted for/accept (Porn) sadly becomes our sole sexual education; a compilation of practices borrowed/ inspired/ amended from our History, and illustrate the consequence of the “naturalist” Idea, that Animal Desire follows the “natural” selection rules of the fittest. Why complain! Such a cool game! Each person has so much choice! He can interpret/fit/play its role, within a huge spectrum of feeling ranging different “shades of grey” , “attitudes” played to “attract” in seductions games that intended to increase the Chances of pleasure. This “quest” is an escape; to the Real problem of Sexual satisfaction, of consolidating “Love”, with is in Essence not a problem of good Action (how we do it), but Time (when we do it).

In Practice to express Desire, all Lovers end up never agreeing about “TIMINGS”… From this long term perspective, all the Sexual experience is a fail, and seem to lead to “bullshit talking”, the different perception of the Realisation of the Animal Desire by Men and Women bringing in all couples mistrust and disappointment masked only for a time at best by a nonsense comparison with others’ apparent external signs of Love happiness, using mutual jealousies/recognitions as a self-justification of “normality”. In those “Affairs” Sex lose quickly its aura, and become an unwanted Duty, are what we presently call “Human Love”, leading everybody to joke about Sex, men happily, the women less, not to say the truth: what a Fucking Hell of a Pain!!!!!  The deliquescence of Social Care in the World is just but the manifestation of the impossibility to deal an increasing sexual frustration (in reality, “inside”, nobody ever Cared, everybody is selfish because of the Untold Man’s Lie!).

Lessons from a “Theoretical-only” Love Experience … 

Inside: from a Silent Revolt to the Revelation

I’ve met 1000’s of people, never had problems to chat, but I believe, I became an undiagnosed bi-polar character misunderstood by western psychology: due to deep family miscommunication including the loss of the mother tongue and the very particular personality of my brother… What happened, revealed t me by his late wedding at 40to, is that since I am 20 years old, he managed to slowly transfer an insane jealousy for having been less good at school than me (I was particularly “bright”, not to help), by making we witness years of Sexual perversion in an insidious way, making me at the same time have some fascination and pity… (this has ranged from male prostitution, 3 years seropositive – which turned up to be a diagnosis mistake, latent homosexuality 3 or 4 sexual tourism experience in the Madagascar area, where our Indian community has “settlers”, all educated to sexuality through prostitution all that subtly hidden to everyone BUT me), which had completely destroyed any family trust (that was not great, from my parents neither), and set me (following the most innocent of all my brother’s vices…) in a 20year addiction to marijuana…

Jealous about your Western world because stuck here, in male dominated environment! I “observed” you as well… like from inside a more and more introverted bubble, I refused to play your Love games DELIBERATELY all my life because I felt EVERYWHERE, they were wrongly based on appearances! (I’ve semi-deliberately put constrains on expressing a scepticism in Love, i.e I could afford much better clothes, than the old, thorn clothes I wear to try to make them last the longest I can, to mean my aim is to talk, not to shine but with the Soul…) knowing the harshness of my Sex Urge (because my brother just inhibited my sexuality, completely!) and being accordingly “simply” honest about my perception of Our Sexuality. It is the reflect of the world, the way it considered my shyness, that has made me feel “feminine”, though I am not at all: I was just facing to many worries at once, immigrant in France and dealing in parallel a slow “excommunication” from my Muslim background facing the incomprehension of the French society. My Social and Family non-sense have put me in severe cultural identity issues: I’ve became slowly stubborn 20 years incapable of choosing a way… I have been always very honest with women about my identity issues, since they were the source of my Love doubt: I naively believed Love was to overcome them. But modern Western AND traditional Muslims both require to fit superficial Love norms/codes, I was asking to go beyond the appearances…

Carrying my brother’s Sexual guilt plus my Doubt EVERYWHERE! I was doomed. Split minded in all the circumstances of my Life!!!!! This is what made me refuse (like a Ghandi-like non-action protest, but, in Love) to start any relationship without making a specific “moral contract”, retaining/withdrawing always my seduction each time I approached Women to try to put the deb-hate on the Table, being utterly anti-materialistic, trying to have a discussion about the “nature of Desire”: each time, women preferred to be/stay superficial, the communication “naturally” broke down because the woman were scared to see me doing that, “sensually” very “Cold”, not  showing any Desire but in a misunderstood Naïve & Poetical ways which to me, was retrospectively simply an Ultimate Test, at the antipodes of what’s “commonly” expected… So yes, I can now be proud to say: for 20 years, I never wanted to be a physically/visibly strong man to win chances to “HAVE” Sex, always wanted to be a secretly religiously strong man to “TRY” to understand Love and be able to make Love ALL THE TIME, because that’s what I NEED!!!!

I am retrospectively so persuaded now my intuition was right all down the line, down my blockage to seduce... I still do not see yet a “natural” way to realise in “practice” the TRUE LOVE I advocate her, starting from our present World if Love has to go through dating/seduction process, like it is the rule, today… I do not know if any Lover ever reached my conclusion by Experience? I relate the Revelation of a Realistic Dream, which promisingly redefines our Desire, that’s all! I do not believe this is neither fortuitous nor gratuitous: it is a paradox of my Life! It is the most positive Love thought I ever had but it comes as the painful consequence of my 20 years core Revolt against Love, saying “NO! NO! NO! I don’t want to do what you ask me to do, or the way you ask me to do!!!!” if it is not Love for me, but “talks” hiding ALWAYS I feel it, the untold disappointment brought by a UNIVERSAL misunderstanding…  I must keep the most resolutely, my Anarchist attitude! 

Outside: from mind Reclusion to a “psychosomatic Resurrection”

Because I faced “perversion” in my Family circle, during those 20 years, people in the Reality were all misled by what I reflected (a rather instable, Lunatic character), feeding me back a systematic Rejection, putting me down, and give me no consolation. I coped… I was paranoid to tell my subsequent Virginity, and was right: I was unease with my body and it was visible, before I got physically stronger, telling it never helped me; on the contrary, emotional abuse was systematic! I was just going more and more downhill, APPARENTLY!… but logically, retrospectively, and clearly, NOW  1) I’m not paranoid anymore, 2) The final views on Love are so Universal, I pardon all my detractors, for they would not have Existed without them: it is my unbeatable  reply to their global lack of Care… Retrospectively, my reality and people’s reality, in Love, were “simply Reversed” beyond the appearance compared to the facts 1) Everybody single or in couple to whom I have asked advices, and have criticised and/or judged as I opened me to my concerns, are in fact living on longer terms the same, or even had more doubts than me, many being jealous about my independence 2) This is because in reality, I BELEIVE “NOW”, NO ONE EVER LEARNED TO HAVE SEX PROPERLY! (the only way sexuality can be lived together for a long time being the one I will define), so the lack of care (point 1) originated from this fact!

But before I reach thins Final Conclusion, my introversion, a general lack of well-being, due to a state of constant indecision my multicultural Muslim/western education has put me in not bringing more humanity, but severe Existentialist doubts, combined to a huge curiosity for the human Soul led me go face (like an insanely curious Observer, not actor) the harshest parts of  World, and it has been a long fight, (behaving like a paranoid soul sucker minimizing physical contacts I did saw everything! went everywhere to See (not to do…)!) My Kurt Cobain-like honesty made me feel ALL my life like an Utterly Misunderstood man, too mystical for a Scientist, and I did set me in a long term “Mission” the past 5 years, betting on reading loads of Poesy and improving my Music, neglecting my Science Work.

The two last years, energised because enraged by an incomprehensible semi-arranged wedding between my brother’s and an Indian girl of my community (she hooked him without trying to know him, but I know him: he IS a sexual “freak”!!!!), I have I’ve slowly withdrew as much as I could the guilt associated to the long accumulated frustration & the destroying jealousy it made me have for all the Lovers form 1000’s of backgrounds I had encountered in my life, by changing the way I’ve dealt with it. Ultimately, I got physically stronger and, utterly fed up by the state of mind pornography was putting me in, I’ve stopped watching it, searched and found ways to satisfy myself recovering a “natural” feel, making it a nice thing to do, and like that, I discovered to my own surprise, a brand new sensual strength in the Act of masturbation, which made it far less urgent and frenetic than it was, when pornography was “killing” me before. I BELIEVE I’ve recovered a lost Man pride in a way few men in my generation could managed to do…

By the power of Will, I got extra Men Pride without having Sex just by learning to have more Control, Alone, before I meet the One! And I thought I’ve met mine, Aurelia… But she was not 100% free… she had to betray someone, to come with me, and I was so excited these days, I was writing to her fiery Monologues, but she was keeping just Silent, Invisible to me, obviously fascinated hypnotized for 6 month before harshly telling me she stay with her man… When I told her my Solution, I admit I did it outrageously, in a state, it is a shame we never talked: she became afraid, well, I was alone, gambling, she had someone… you know how I work: Love is 200% trust, she had to call me, she did not…that’s just Destiny!

The “Revelation”: The “logical” need, for a new Sexual Practice(s)

SINCE! LOVE MAKES SO MUCH SENSE, TO ME!!! I have to recall I’m a scientist! But despite the silence and the final rejection of Aurelia (like if I was talking to God), the ultra-lyrical state I was, retrospectively make me BELEIVE I Just got An Essential Mystic Vision (something you can imagine, visualize, in the Reality of our Sexuality which looks to me the more and more I think about it as a Dream for our Reality, but don’t exist, in the Reality)! More important than not convincing the girl…

The first version of this document, was written in January 2014.ALL WHAT'S WRITTEN IN RED, IS AN UPDATE - November 2015:

It is not OUR fault, if Sex scares you, woman! Aurelia Silence echoed the Untold Silent ultimate male complicity,  the fact ALL THE MEN  having  ALL TIMES fantasized Sex as “Animal” they’ve silenced forever the possibility to TALK like humans, during Sex, and this slowly matured in my mind as being is the Core source of the Man-Woman misunderstanding, in Sexuality!! The impossibility to “describe” or say, how too frequent and excessive is the Man’s Joy has created a deep No Comprendo, “inside”, the Woman believing it is Fatal! Men and woman never “worded” that when the Man’s Desire comes in, when that’s too much for her, (for the most, obsessive, penetration Act) he could be AS pleased to withdraw if she’d be happy helping him let it flow OUTSIDE “properly”, “naturally” with Laughter rather than “inside”, like you’d release pressure, from a Vapour cooker (and for the REST consider...) (I “believe” every week or 2^ndweek, except a proper one, once every 4 times is reasonable, but negotiable!).

I was experiencing at the time o dwriting the First Version of this document, the height of all forms affliction, consequence of the total lack of care that I was desperately feeling for having during 20 years, been subjected to various forms of emotional abuse (confusingly, either partly by my FAULT/LOVE situation, because I was very prone to unconsciously want it - calling for it... or truly blameable and unwanted), minimising in many ways I guessed and/or fantasized, my person, my dignity, my capacities (work) which I thought, was done on purpose, against me, by almost everybody and systematically, FOR BEING AN ANDROGYN-VIRGIN...

I believe, since the Summer 2014, I found my SISTER SOUL - who understands me, without Judgements (and without knowing my virginity, yet). At the Time I am writing this update, we had a PURE Mind interaction keeping Mutually Mysterious, for more than a year, now, without any physical interaction (tacitly refusing)  and having (so far) shown only very SCARCE attempts to be together. 

THE NEW DEAL changes my Mind, and the MANIFESTO - DEEPLY! And I think, what I wrote Before is not COMPLETELY satisfactory and reflect the state of the frustrated Anger I was/had been driven in far too long, which my new SOUL-LOVE, has largely cured... 

I've "faded" the passages I found misleading or too dogmatic, accordingly... I have not removed them, because they do reflect well the INNOCENT process of my very particular Obsessive quest of a Universal Love (which is the Reason SUPPORTING this writing: CRUCIALLY & INTIMATELY related to telling THE TRUTH) which I don't deny nor blame: it just needs reconsideration/refinement, for the fact, my new state of mind, calmer, makes me realise that I had omitted other Crucial Sexuality-related Obsessions that I carry (and related to extreme views of the role of our "Senses", in Love vs the role of our "Organs": talking vs tasting & touching vs seeing), and the fact I still struggle - fail (or unconsciously refuse) to find tangible positive reactions from Women (the violence of penetration, not helping clarifying the right-universal "frequency", of this particular act: my original view, therefore looking retrospectively either too "naive" or too "presumptuous" there). 

My new Love (who is above 50 years old..), seems to me sending subliminally EXTREMELY "protective" and/or "severe warnings", AGAINST Sexual Realisation... So, I still BELIEVE, in the Chastity Logic that drives me, and was driving this Manifesto which still mostly remains VALID in its anarchic outlook (but, always in a more EXTREMIST - AND good way!), if you let me set, INSPIRED BY LOVE the following, and Amended Rules!

=> said "Religiously": 

1) SEXUALITY IS INDEED A CROSS...: 

2) WHERE LOVERS TONGUE MUST BE KEPT FREE TO TALK! (fellatios are humiliating Acts...)

3) ONE WAY was TOLD, TO ACHIEVE ITS GOAL (THE NEED - NEEDS TO BE MINIMISED!)

4) LET IT ULTIMATELY HELP US (KEPT IN MIND) to make (the GOAL <=> the CROSS)!

4) REPLACE (abstract)  a (REALITY = DEADLY NEED) by (A DREAM = AN INNOCENT ENVY),  

=> said Poetically/Practically: 

1) ENJOY= (TALK + TOUCH), KEEP EYES LOOKING INTO EACH-OTHER'S EYES! 

2) AVOID LOOKING AT BODIES, BECAUSE THIS WHAT SADDENS THE SOUL! 

3) NEVER GET TEMPTED OF SEEING Sexes, with your EYES!

4) ACCEPT, AS ANOTHER WAY: "Give me a HAND that SEES!" (Fatima's hand Symbol), instead!

5) STAY 100% VIRGIN OR CHASTE! IF YOU WANT TO (like me!) AND IF YOU CAN!

AND I BELIEVE ALL HAVE HERE ALL THE FINAL SET OF CLUES,

THAT CAN ACHIEVE THE CROSS, IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER!

All the rest, in this document, remains IMPORTANTLY TRUE (=> THE LOVE REVOLUTION!!!)

Yes, instead of making the same bad “fucking” jokes forever, brings some Poesy, the proper mechanical metaphors to make it work forever! The accumulation in Time and History, of “bad Fucks” (and bad reasons for doing them) for 2000 years of “talks” is the mirage BLINDING US, and just did not helped consider this “innocent” alternative: We need more “Frequent” THEREFORE “more Chaste” Love making (when I come in, it is with respect! you have the RIGHT to ask me to come out!) which is such a luminous idea, I can  easily Imagine/conceive/decline here, in 1001 other variants (see at the end, for one amongst million more Poetical ways to put it!)

As a New Sexual Education

Yes, being Virgin…. I had this totally Virgin Idea never made, never heard! that Lovers should just have well defined “enjoyable, sensual, powerful,  very regular and passionate mutually friendlily INTERRUPTED Sexual play” rather than loosely try to fantasize all the time a gamble, “having Sex” as a mean to a loose end (pleasure) like YOU ALL people say by Millenary habit of Gambling (you know this dangerous FEAR game, hey? little Red Riding Hood!), and I let you here, remember how you ALL felt the first time, and how what I say DEFINES just about the right “sexual education” that we UNFORTUNATELLY never had but should have had (because greedy Man’s Desire “controls” and put a dictates for you, of what is good fortune…), which removes IPSO FACTO the fear you ALL had (“the End”), the Lie you’ve all missed (the Urge frequency), and all the anger which Women have accumulated in Silence but never removed (deception or pain), each time after the first time, they had to fuck with always less and less good reasons, not Really willing it scared wondering for God sake how many fucking times does Man fucking needs me!!? No?!?!

The tour de force, is that you needed a Unique man whose life makes exception (I do NOT think I am in any way “exceptional…”) to de duce this Idea. Not from experience, something copied/inspired from what the World suggests to do (and the Social/External pressure of achieving Sexual “fitness” would have actually buried the “innocence” needed to advance the Idea…) but from DREAMING the meaning of my rejection in the world, in regard to what I saw, compiled, during my 20 years of “mental hermitage” and Spying and Dreaming the World, NEVER EVER “feeling” (Mystically, with an extra sensorial outlook…) that any existing Sexual practice (and, it is related, seduction process) was compatible with the authenticity you’d expect from consolidating an Understanding of LOVE, because Love is to be built here, outside the Reality, in our Dreams.

I certainly feel tired by 20 years totally out of Love, but I do feel now BLESSED, ILLUMINATED IN THE DARK AND REWARDED BY AN ESSENTIAL AND PRACTICAL REVELATION! Doubly Proud: first, because I really BELIEVE in Sex again despite the fact I’ve never experienced it at ~40 years old, at the opposite of most, who enter at this age into the (in)famous middle life crisis (another “manifestation” of the inner sexual male disease…)! Secondly, PROUD IT IS BORN FROM A COURAGEOUS INTROVERTED SILENT REVOLT AGAINST WHAT’S THE CORE OF OUR MIND’S CONTROL (SEX) With this “discovery” I’m not “afraid” or “stressed” at what Sex could mean to me AND the women anymore… And want to share the Joy, with everyone!

I claim it is the most Seductive & Unique Sexual Thought ever Told, in the whole World, since millenary times: the definition of an innocent Sexual microcosm saving us in a bubble, which strongly defend us against the “diversity obsession” modern Sexuality has developed both in Sex, and other desires in us (palliatives of the sexual frustration), with its insane multiplication of practices, on display. 

FROM HERE! Who Loves me Follows me!

Human Desire, Oppression vs. Love, and Revolution

For a re-feminization, humanization of Sexual Desire

I redefine the Human Desire as this respectful “share”, with You Women,  Our Animal Desire: its requires to kills man’s arrogance, and restores your Say, deep down in Love.  (Nov 2015 update) Regarding Penetration, It is just the way Desire should have always been intuitively defined, if any Lovers had ever frankly TALKED from their 1^st caress, “during” their 1^st penetration, that the “final point” is NOT to give and take, or to finish but to experience together (but this requires mature men and woman “hearts”, blood flow in control! talking inside frankly)! And that this is  taught, transmitted to our children, generation after generation, and not rely anymore on what our sense feel separately and alone, and that are the reflect of Love lies, the projection “inside” of our fallacious Culturally perverted Natural Desire “outside”.

Yes!  Welcome in this new millennium, born in my mind, a proper share of Man and Woman Desire to TRY to be together that “simply” accommodate the need to have Sex most of the time like a Caress (soft entry-passionate-soft exit) than always think the passion must “die” inside, so we can cope with the terrible last century’s scientific finding, which revealed an order of magnitude higher frequency of the “natural” need, in Men, so the ONLY way, Love can last,  is to remove the ANGUISH of the ACCOMPLISHEMENT so the Honest man can be welcome Loved, Understood, as often as he needs! The myth of Sexual “Accomplishment” is a wrong Idea which promotes irrespective of Cultures and Beliefs, meritocratic Societies of Liars that are all meant to collapse, either making Wars to arbitrary opponents, or imploding in Civil wars, because they are in fact all a caduceus heritage of a “Prometheus”-type Empowerment ruled by Men that in fact use “talking” as a highly coercive tool to hide in Reality their Sexual cowardice with Power and/or Violence having all in the back of their mind in truth the wish to selfishly finish in Woman without concession and/or condition, as rewards for a pretty pale victories we give away to you (that’s where Love becomes the saddest thing, just but a trap into superficial  attraction/Money/Venality…), but which every Modern Man conceive nowadays to be (you know by Experience, Modern Woman!) mere futile seduction.

Men’s “Animal Desire” and Oppression

It strikes me how Men release sexual frustration with women using fallacious seduction tricks, in very same way they he uses persuasively knowledge and/or force as gaining “power” and/or “domination” in hierarchical structures like work to take control/oppress/impress other individuals, which perversely has an effect to wrongly “turn on” women, but again, if you Understand the “source”, that the motivation always finds, a Sexual root!… all this reflects the fact that what the Man in Power not being able to Realize his Sexuality fully, he compensates by trying to show he controls Time (and you know the saying, “time is money, money is time”, which explains why we wrongly associate happiness to wealth). This derives from identifying THE MAN’S POWERFUL DESIRE to GOD rather than let it be an instrument to satisfy GOD’s desire. The refusal to Share this Desire smoothly by “imposing” it to You Stresses the Time (or that of the person he oppresses) so you have lose control of Time, so his Desire dominate yours!

Considering Life in various contexts the world suggests us, it appears that what we admit as being achievements of History and Time are ALL mirages hiding consequences of an Old and Same Men’s Sexual Lie. It hides what chains most of Men (oppressors and oppressed) to the anguish of the Time wondering when the fuck will they’ll have sex, let’s put it bluntly! leaving the oppressed frustrated most of the time in this Reality with no scruples, servants used to use prostitutes, masters call their “call girls”, all the “middle-class” Bourgeois watching Porn in the meantime, with women everywhere kept as much ignorant as they can to be used naively, from time to time, to build families in a world designed for winners only…!

Most of what we could qualify as “Productive” Work is still essentially done by men in male dominated environments, where the untold Urge of Sad frustrated bosses splashes in the unconscious of the dominated as oppression, disdain, emotional abuse and at best, indifference everywhere “in your backyard” Women. As a result, the majority of men and women are contextually becoming masters/servants in a “some” mad house (at home and/or at work) set by “Cultures” hardly facing frontally the reality of the generally fare more common Male frustration, shared by oppressors and oppressed!… Women are kept on witnessing “our inner” fights superficially, ignorant and seeing only the external effect, scared, begging for care & protection and naively seduced or liberated, playing the game, copying the “tricks” from “winners” without gambling with what you don’t know, as being in fact foolish attitudes that partially hiding the other face winners share with the weak: the same frustrated Urge and the fascination for Violence it creates, which are still today the most favourite Men games. 

The Modern Lie

With Globalization, the Man’s Lie shows its face more and more perversely, visibly, in total impunity in our pseudo-liberated World, democratically, through a daily media show people “drink”, of moralizing accounts of never ending Stories of Crime & Violence happening everywhere, from next door to a faraway doggy “indigenous” country! The fascination for technology hides the fact that this hides locally, a Bourgeois/Criminal incestuous “marriage” replacing the old model of Brothels, by a symbiotic relationship of the same ancient low and high Social Classes but connected virtually in secret, now, through the virtual port of the pornography, whose actors are intimately connected to organized human and Drug trafficking networks that are in reality politically supported “criminal institutions”. To me, Internet (I’ve heard to be verified, 30% of investments/revenues derive more or less directly from PORN!) seems to have just promoted such worldwide Crime plague, democratically accepted for the past 20 years?… Everybody’s consumes happily more or less with good consent, playing with stupid little Angry birds to change their minds, how long will this “Modern model” work?

For an “apolitical/non cultural/non-religious anti-male” Revolution “in Love”

My Revelation sustains a unprecedented Sexual Education. This has in my opinion consequences going beyond Sexuality. It holds a Global Revolution dreamt by the Feminists without needing more fights “Outside” (the Solution being a Man-Woman “Dialogue” I am restoring “inside”): the death of 2000 years of “Male dominated history”, which killed our Garden of Eden, spoiled how God had dreamt our Love (Laughing at us, now, seeing us drowning in always more darkness and violence, by putting such an Evil sexuality in us…).

It just extends to Sexuality the feel of “unconditional Trust” you get from Love, from being close to someone. Like in Love, the consolidation of the trusty Bound goes beyond the Body, but involves the Soul: it can only be achieved by a better communication which “within” Sex, has been made “historically” abscond by the Man’s greed for violence (100% sexual in origin) and which even today, keeps you in a “Naïve Mother Role – weak creature to be protected”, beyond the mirages of man-woman’s equality, Out of time, Politics, excluded from the Man’s History of His External Wars, ignorant of the Internal Fuck up that have made ALL the human relations “shows” of Dominance – do you really STILL want to play “male power” game, Women?

All Human Revolutions tried to improve “Life Conditions” (not the Condition of Life…). They only considered opposing two dialectic terms of the Reality and expecting a solution, a winner, from wars and troubles evolving in the Reality, within our linear TIME. They’ve in majority all failed to reverse oppression, or the victories are always relative leading to other form of oppression or showing contradictions/limitations, none has been global, Universal, History seem to stagnates in incomprehensible Permanent fights with “moving targets”, and the human never seem to gain more Wisdom, in reality.

This is because the (belligerent) psychology of all previous Revolutions (even Feminism), had to be “masculine” to face a “male dominated world”.  The Ultimate Revolution against this dominance MUST be apolitical: it MUST be a Love Revolution, a revolution IN LOVE,  FORCING US ALLTOGETHER (Men and Woman) to face frontally the far more Pessimistic Vision of Our World beyond its appearance, from the point of view of “Love stability”, which I advocate here as having been and becoming more and more, a Real Nightmare! WE DON’T NEED MORE PROGRESS, WE MUST MAKE FIRST THE FUNDAMENTAL REVOLUTION IN THE CONCEPTION OF THE HUMAN DESIRE (LOVE) I ADVOCATE HERE beyond all Historical Preconceptions, Dogmas, Habits, Cultures (in gross, all “naturalist” based approach to Reality, declined into the Human World, its language, social codes, religion, philosophy, science, and beliefs, which are all hiding the Man’s Lie when the matter concerns Desire and Love): from Loving your Love (dating to Sexuality), to Loving Humanity, two key Equations:

Conclusion: a brave New Love for a brave New world?

Appendix

The Love Revolution is not an Utopia!!

So, you see Globalized World, my even more Global View now! Oh! Naïve new “wiser” and “progressing” man still chained to Old Loving Ways! What are we doing today, as the 3^rd Millenary AD. Begins? Now that we know it all, let’s redo History, THE FUTURE IS NOW!

Violence and insecurity of all sorts pop up everywhere, with a CORRELTAIVE disappearance/deliquescence of Conjugal Love?!? By the power of our mind obscured by TIMES which we, the Powerful man have invented (to play “Political games” without having your Say, women), and control a desire still childishly viewed these days, as a part of a “Demonic animal nature” we all have…! You saw me open the Eyes of the Heart! Beyond Our Reality! Here are consequences; I have not developed in details.

The apparent democratic consensus on the modern freedom for “sexual orientation” hides a largely underestimated communication breakdown in the Society where frustration/incomprehension (the lack/failure of “Love”) in Reality, is fed back as a deep “incomprehension” of what’s human difference. The praise of the Ego is resorbed into verbal/physical “violence”. Social stability is more and more a Miracle, 1000’s of facts are threatening the democratic massive belief that you can still protect, be yourself and a good citizen, continue to quietly consume Life pleasures coming with the “compensation” of the pain and/or frustration of an “effort” or “achievement” that does not “simply” bring Joy, that Life is a fight but Condition improves. It is in fact also massively hidden, that such compensation apparently works for everything… but praised Evil venal or deviants pleasures like venal Sex, Drugs, dangerous sports, Women Fashion Obsession, Games, Luxury: the Reality has all what you need, the good and the worse, you chose, the worse is to come, soon…! Since in Reality Sex is too taboo,  the core deb-hate on the intimate Reality of Sexuality is locked, I have made the Revolution in my mind, Dreamt from “compiling” my Reality (20 years of “mental isolation” incomprehension of Love (the refusal of Women to talk about Love Lies: the pointlessness of Seduction/attraction AND the refusal of homosexuality, as an exit, which set me Dreaming Life, more than Living it), a Practical Solution (a Sex-Lesson!) so men and woman desire can be “commonly conjugated” out of time (all the time).

Just trying to be Innocent again…! Imagine (Like Lennon!) like I did: in a world withou Love, Love “theoretically” has to be born from the maddest Anarchist Dream. And I’ve semi-deliberately applied that dream in the Real to an Extreme limit, I’ve SAID NO, NO, NO! TO EVER “THINK OF/DREAM OF” LOVE AS AN ANIMAL-LIKE SEXUAL ACHIEVEMENT (and “end up” obsessed by “fucking women”) because this is looking just WRONG to me, I don’t want to impress ourselves with ANY Animal instinct, LOVE IS A LYRICAL AND POETICAL DREAM FIRST!… I did that for 20 years, yes, and after 20 years of Platonic Loves only… I CAN SEE ME IN (OR OUT) ANYBODY, LIKE NOBODY (FEELING - WITHOUT SEEING), talking sweet to her receptive to how she feels (THE SAME - NO NEED TO SEE...), ready, for letting her interrupt the intercourse (BECAUSE LOVE inc SEX,  HAS TO BE ALL EXPRESDED AS A CARESS, NOT A "FUCK" = WHAT NOBODY HEARD!) if she wishes because being Humans, we’d Just Understand there is “simply” a “natural fear” of doing it, finishing it, “like beasts”!!! And I realize despite the Realism of the Vision, this is a Unique brand new Idea I’ve never heard… 

Our Violent History driven by Our Scary “male” desire talk about having Sex, does not seem to have ever let this scenario happen!!! Agree “inside” (or outwardly) how much our Urge is so “naturally” excessive to both of US, in truth… If the Man can do this Revolution in his head and the Woman can Wake up to My Call, we could then rather innocently “always” “try to have (touch our) Sex” rather than keeping on being obsessed “when” we “have Sex” by just refusing in this domain a full accomplishment (see November 2015 update: choosing your way, to minimise it! and if you choose penetrationFUCKING don't FINISH it!....), YOU have better control on timings, you know how the man gets “foolish”! Inside!…Yes, I just say I think I end up being the First a man who considered “theoretically” the possibility of two, and not a single way to make Love: the most frequent one is a new deliberately Chastely Frustrated, sweeter & unfinished Sexual play, whilst standard Love (the Holy-Grail! the aim of Pro-creating!) is tried ONLY for a special occasion = an aknowedged Birth Conception!

This “sexual contract” paradoxically achieves the solution to the Manifest failure of heterosexuality (and the CORRELATIVELY highly debated Right of homosexuality) by a mature understanding of Sexuality: rather than defined by (male biased) historical Myths, it restores the Human Men-Woman Dialogue within an Undisputed Holy Domain (the Woman Secret) that Men, have fallaciously and Dogmatically defined as the place for the expression of our Animal Nature (to in truth, be fake Gods, and never share the God’s Desire and the Love “properly” with you, to make you believe, Life(God) is suffering!)

In the same way I’ve been Urged by People puzzled by my Virginity to express my Urge, I Urge new Lovers to instead to (I estimate ~4 times more often, simply according the ratio of Men/Woman Suicide rates!!!!!) Learn come in Love with a totally different Trustworthy state of Mind which consider desire less Dogmatically, frees our souls by removing the anguish associated to the impossible “measure” or share of the pleasure we expect from “fucking” without respect. Break the Rule Man made (which by insane millenary persuasion.. made people “forbidden” to Speak during Sex- but talk bullshit when the talk about it in Reality, since we are brain washed expecting you to Groan, like us, like a beast)! So to never ask when God howls, never question if the Desire given is really satisfying, or not: the Man has said! It is God’s Almighty desire, unquestionable, indivisible! I say, against the odds, that NO! We can, WE MUST share (minimize) the Love-God-Desire, restore another way to Make Love with the religious respect of the Chance that is given to share (experience) the most Ultimate Free and Natural of all our Pleasures (being touched, not for being seen....), as a Worded (Poetical) Act of sharing Mutual Joy (healing), so we decide together the beginning and the end (all the modalities, the most regularly!): Your Trust in exchange for my Respect, 2 Keys to Love instead of one (my desire only).

Blake's Vision of the Worm =the Book of Thel!

This is necessary to remove fear coming from the heterosexual contradiction: the fact never face frankly, that Lovers must face more often the situation where the Man’s urge need to be unwillingly satisfied, the plan is then to try (and not do it) without cost to Our Souls Passionate Duo Flights where we take off and land back together… Men just have to do their deed (be less arrogant) and Women, have the courage to face the (nowadays, scientifically proven, INSANE) Reality, that a “worm” (cf. William Blake, “The Complaint of Thel”) was in “the Apple of a fake Knowledge” (praising and howling with Animal Desire so insanely, he called himself God)! that now that We Know, it is time to Understand, go to another Garden, cut the Pear in two, and share the Desire properly, without gambling with Time, anymore!  The new human desire I define, 50/50% shared between men and women (amended, according to the Nov 2015 Update, is a 100% blessed touching gift by Women!) restore the Idea that whenever needed, Sexual Joy Essentially comes for Free, because it is a share where the Tiniest given, is Everything! The Ultimate one, which requires the Highest Trust, so its modality (the time and strength) is entirely Flexible and should follow the principle of less action! dynamically and conjointly adjusted in tension, not the Man principle of Power, which makes us behave as stupid horse heading into you, considered as walls… that’s ALL!

The first Liberations will be in easing access to Love. As Bodies would have no reason to fear “trying to have (touch) Sex”, we’ll eventually be able to try as many “souls” we wish without guilt, the Love quest restored as a thepure search of a Sister soul. The Sexual Lesson just predefines for future Lovers an infinitely unexplored Time/space of new Desire (which combine in more complex ways the Men and Woman desire to “Start” and “Stop”! rather than being only that of the Man to “End”), in which any Couple, not restricted to a single way, can surely find its ways to equilibrium to make Love together a question Out of Time, a “regular” and “plain” Joy having its own Life.

It would then consolidate Love in time, curing the source of our Existentialistic Pain in Love (the incomplete projection of our Dreams into Reality), for the most important (sexual) desire, which is at present, the reason why people Life’s is a succession of Joy an Pain to Live in an Historical Time hiding untold frustration! This can potentially bring anyone us states of INTENSE “plenitude” or “happiness”, feelings of being “out of time” never reached simply brought by better released frustration, on a long term.

Last, this will echo on the Society, because I strongly believe this is practically achievable Universally by any Loving Couple, everybody can becomes equal with respect the Right for Sex, disentangling Love Satisfaction from Life conditions, lowering the weight historical judgement has in predefining people by their upbringing and/or social position permitting a Social Diversity without the actual Love jealousies/tension/alienation/mistrust which are all rooted in fears that the present state of Sexuality creates.

This redefinition of Desire operates a Serious Historical Paradigm shift the source of the Love “instability” (the misleading sexually fantasized jealousy for other apparent/external Love happiness) in the world will be dried out, adulterous play pointless, and the greatest social fears (rape and prostitution being the amongst most Archetype Crimes) will have no reason to be, A Garden of Eden restored in every Understanding heart, so CORRELATIVELY, people will not fear to freely take any stranger’s hand neither, a foreseeable disappearance of all human violence.